ketybhagat started a new discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
3 days ago
I have a friend to whome I have always been close, like childhood friend. He is married and so am I. We both meet regularly as he is a family friend. I know he loves me a lot, has always loved me, but somehow I cant feel the same way for him except the affection for a childhood friend. I am very attached to my family and would not do anything to harm it. But I dont have it in my heart to hurt t...

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Actually, the best part is the whole world knows your partner is cheating on you and you are the last person to know it. Its sad but true, for we often wear blinkers where our loved ones are concerned. When you feel neglected, you put it down to his or her being tired. We try and make excuses for their behaviour. But as our other mylotter has put it very very plainly, telling you all the signs ...

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Hey sarphrina, when we are angry and really upset, the best thing to do is get it out of your chest and rant and rave. Pople around you will tell you to chill, but believe me, its not easy. When I start arguing with my husband, (he starts it) and then when I give back, he tells me to stop it. I cant, not till Ive had my say and then I go on and on till its off my chest. Its only then that I fee...

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bhanu, bhanu, I could throttle you. Have you been to India, seen our girls, the poor and the rich. I am not saying all are beautiful, but if you go to see, the face cut, the eyes, the complexion of our girls are really worth seeing. There are poor girls who are so beautiful, you would feel sad at their plight. The rich can ofcourse pamper to their bodies and be beautiful, but these pagents are ...

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
2 days ago
Hi westbird, Belive me, I too feel confused. I know he loves me and tells me so, but I do not encourage him at all. I laugh it of and tell him, he should as Im his best friend. He has never tried to take advantage of me, and I know he is unhappy in his marriage as well as with his sons. He has no one to turn to but me. I am his listening ear and he pours out his soul to me, but then he is the m...

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
2 days ago
This guy is a true friend, and such friends are rare to find. Yes, though he loves me he has never tried to take advantage of me. I am is listening board and he tells me all. I love my family a lot and Id never do anything to spoil my relations with them for anyone in the world. Thanks.

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
2 days ago
My friend, he is a family friend and my husband knows him for ages. I love my husband and son dearly and would never do anything to hurt them. I laugh it off . My friend is a real friend, which both my husband and I realsie. We will just be freinds always. He is a very decent guy and will not take advantage of our friendship. Its just too sad that he is unhappy. I am his sounding board and henc...

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
2 days ago
He is a real friend and I would not want to lose someone who has been a pillar of strength throughout. Yes, he is a kind understanding guy and will never try and take advantage of me or my family. I have known him for donkeys years and though he has an unhappy marriage, he has never forced himself on me. I love my family very much and I would never do anything stupid. It just hurts to see him h...

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
2 days ago
captain, you misunderstand me. I just love him as a friend and I have a wonderful husband and son, with a solid marriage. I would not hurt them for anything. Yes, he is my childhood friend and as such loves me, but he is still a gentleman. He will never try and push his way or take undue advantage. He is a real friend and it hurts to see him hurt. I wish him all the best, but not at my expense....

ketybhagat commented in a discussion called Someone loves you ever so much but...... in life.
1 day ago
Yes, Im glad you have this friendship still and is welcome both sides of the family. I too really respect him and am very fond of him. Its just too bad that his wife is a b***ch and does not understand his goodness. He has always been a true friend and I hope our respect and affection for eacah other continues. Real friends are like gems, you have to learn to protect them. Thanks.